Professional Psychic, Channel, & Medium

My personal path to freedom resembles an incomplete jigsaw puzzle. I know the pieces for divine liberation and enlightenment are all on the table, but some of them are simply not in place in my life yet. Just as I can look at the cover of a puzzle box and see the whole picture of the sunset on the sea, I can also imagine what my life would be like lived free of stress, strain, and, most importantly, judgment. I can sense the liberating experience of accepting what life brings while keeping my heart and mind open and operating from an unconditionally loving perspective.

The challenge of being open and conscious forces me time again to review my motives, assess my actions, and love myself and others (even when I don't feel like it). When I find myself passing silent judgment upon someone, such as thinking, “You drive too slow (or too fast)!”, I give away my gift of inner freedom. If I let others' actions, and my judgments of them, determine my happiness, then I am not free. My heart closes, creating a sense of separation and pain. This trap is especially tricky when you are an aspirant on the spiritual path and you are trained to transcend and override negative emotions and ego games.

As humans living, working, and being together on this planet, there are going to be times of conflict. The fact that we have young souls, middle-aged souls, and older souls, not to mention all the different cultures and value systems in existence, all mixed up together, assures us that we can expect to have some challenges establishing communication and mutual understanding. We all see things through our own lens of consciousness. But when we accept that others see life differently, we can love and honor them for who they are, becoming compassionate instead of judgmental and freeing us both.

This freedom from judging gives one the gift of a spacious heart. It can be felt on an energetic level. I encourage you to try a little experiment to demonstrate this point. Decide that you are going to live one full day free of judging others, then watch your thoughts, words, and actions. Catch yourself when you hear yourself saying, “I'm better than him”, or, “she's better than me”. Notice how people psychically pick up on your unspoken judgments, or lack thereof, and respond.

When we put love first, it is felt and others soften in our presence. When we criticize others, verbally or nonverbally, they can feel it and walls come up that cut us off from one another. When we don't hold others responsible for looking, acting, or being a certain way for us to love them, then we are free to be the living expression of love.

Imagine the radiant picture that the complete jigsaw puzzle of your life will form. Let that image fall into place in your life one piece at a time, patiently and gently, with daily renewed effort. Feel stress, worry, and separation fall away as you connect to yourself and others, free of judgment. Look at the big picture and reclaim your wholeness, remembering that you are connected to and one with everything, and free.